Go with the flow...

Hey everyone!!

Too much going in life these days, meeting new peaple, new enemies, old friends reunion, some new feelings and some awkward relationship, new lies and old truth...

We all face this part of life where we are happy but life is messed up, life is just not going the way we wanted but we are so glad to be where we are. This phase is magical moment, the ambience of this moment is felt like we are in air or may be in heaven for sometime. But lemme tell you all this feeling is only for time being. We all be back to pavalion once the phase is taken over by our mind. The mind which always say about career and the practical crap.

I do believe being practical is the best at this age but overcoming such a blossom moment is not good as well. The main concern here is we are happy. We are being crazy, ignoring something important, doing stupidity. So we ask ourself what should we do?

Stop being happy and find happiness in our practical life .... No the best way to deal with it is, be in the moment and find practicality. Be happy first then practical. Little difficult, I know.
Moment, phrase, destiny all these take us where we are today and just the feeling of overwhelm, make us do what we want to.

Want and sacrifice go hand in hand... We want something but we sacrifice wants to be stable and obviously to be good in society. I will say go with your wants and you will achieve what is good and happy for you. And trust me society doesn't matter.

Feeling out of this world is too rare to feel And to make someone felt that way... 😍

Enjoying each and every part of life is whats important, especially when you don't have any direction to move on.
Life will stop you to be determined to your objective but going with flow will take you to your innermost target. It can be in term of love, friendship, relationship or family. Just smile and go on to be risk taker and flow like water in every moment ....

Not only you but with your presence with this mind set, peaple around you will also experience some happiness and relief. They will trust you and you will be best person to be with as you are joyful on yourself. Peaple will be pleasured with your company and you will be more enthusiastic & fresh. Even your relationships will come on track.

Mostly smile because you are breathing, cheerish every emotion with compulsion smile at the ending. And if at the end there is nothing worth smiling then ' PICTURE ABHI BAKI HAI MERE DOST  '. 

Lesson from past... Mistake in present...

Hey everyone,

This topic is close to my heart though, trying to learn to overcome.

Sometimes we learn our lesson from past experiences either its relationship or may be business but we all learn something, when it breaks and restrict ourself from committing same situation again.
Because of all this we ruin are present, yes we have learned lesson to not to be in same phase again but its not important or mandatory that, that phase will be same as before.

Little confusing right?
The only thing I am trying to say is that past mistake can be great in present or today's time because the peaple are different and you are more stronger than before as you have already been in that moment or part of situation before.

I have done it today, the mistake that is silly and not acceptable, feeling misrable but still I am uncomfortable to express to person and not accepting my fault.

Sometime we feel we are right, not because we are actually right but because we think its right and it will be better to be right. And we ignore the feeling of the person who is connected to that phase. The main part is we just think this way because of our few past experiences with different person.

The situation can change, its just ego or self belief, we behave this way, even because of our shitty past phases, we hurt peaple who actually meant something to us or love them internally.

Commitment is very big word, we deal with it on our daily life but when it comes to the peaple we love, we don't use this word. Not because we are fake but because we think we are not suitable for them. May the feeling are same from both ends but we are confused on commitment. We just don't commit in fear of losing also. Suppose we commit and he/she will leave us.

Lets first know the other end's feeling and then commit but friend till then we will miss the flight, I mean we will miss the time and he / she will go for ever.

I molded a lot of things in this post... Though its dedicated. I wish the person understand and revert may be...


Till next post... Keep rocking 👌

The bond ❤️

Couples are made in heaven though some just believe in miracles ....

Deep thought yet can be felt by everyone who has been in love more than once. 

First love is the gate to heaven but after that the next are gate to good life that too with precaution 'not to be involve so much'. 😋

You all must be thinking, why sudden blog which makes no sence but still relatable. I will tell you why? 

Recently, I have been listening a lot of first love kinda stories and I even remembered my time. So here I thought, lets research about first love mystery.

Interacted lot of my friends regarding the mystery and majority were like, first love is true and others are time pass. And remaining one's said all numbers are same. 

My theory is little different , either its first, second, third or may be tenth. Love is not which number it is or how many people you have slept with or may be cheating on your current one. But love is that feeling where you can tell that one person your in & out. I mean you can tell your lover this is my number or may be if you have cheated then be open about it. This sounds perfect bond to me. The bond where you are best friends first than the soulmate. 

Couples in today's time I see, living together since long, still they doesn't have a single clue what as a person there partner are. This is not love, this is either stubborness to be together or just society pressure or sometimes even the Fear of being alone (FOBA) . Many people, I know are in FOBA category so much that they ruin there life. This category is mostly after first break up, the fear of commitment change to FOBA. 

I know what you will ask next, How to find that one person? 

Simple just leave everything to your destiny. Just go with the flow. Don't think too much. Love is stupid doesn't require brains. We all have that power to catch that one and make them ours. 🙂

Kahin na kahin, koi na koi mere liye banaya gaya hai ... aur kabhi na kabhi main usse zaroor milongi

But

Kisi ko pyar karna aur ussi se pyar paana ... bahut kam logon ko naseeb hota hai

Go someone somewhere must be waiting for you 💕

Forget or Forgive

And this time arrives again, probably best time as I am connecting to each one of you. Some might know me & some not but everyone can feel my words.

Words, saying, speech, these all are such incredible way to express whatever we feel.
There are many ups and downs in our lives but the hurt is constant, hurt can be from family, friends, colleagues, boss or an unknown. Hurt is a feeling of immense hate or unconditional love. But the pain remains the same. Why?

If feeling are different than pain should be distinct too. Here come the role of our brain. When somebody hurt us we say 'I will forgive not forget' we say this not because we meant but since we want the person to feel guilty. Aren't we?

Yes we do, after saying such strong phase we take a burden on us and life long we find one similar expression to hurt that person. Is this fair?

No it is not, the best punishment to the person would be to suffer, let them go forgive and forget them & then see the play of karma.
Karma is what we all are bound with, how much we believe or not, its there and will always be there. Not to tell us how bad we did in past but to teach us & make our future bright.

Forgetting is easy than forgiving. Many peaple I know they tend to forgive easily though but forgetting sounds world war 3 to them. Why?

The answer is too simple, because if we will not forgive that thought will be in your nerves for life long as a birthmark but forget is like casual nature, you will be effected only for time being.

Lets cut this through, next time whenever you are hurt , try to forgive and forget them. Trust me your life will be more simpler and the person will feel shallow from that very moment.

"Kabhi kabhi hum mushkil rasta sirf is liye chunte hai ... kyun ki humein lagta hai, important cheezein paane ke liye humein mushkil rasta apnana chahiye ... apne aap ko punish karna bahut zaroori samajhte hai ... but why, aasaan rasta kyun nahi chun sakte ... kya burai hai us mein ... khaas karke jab us mushkil ka saamna karne ke liye hum taiyaar hi nahi hai"

Inspired dialogue of Shah Rukh Khan
From Dear Zindagi



Cherishing smiles ☺️

Tattoos - Forever mark on skin...

Too excited to write about one of my favorite..  Tattoos

Frankly since my childhood, I was so much possessive about my skin that I can't bear even my mother's hand on my face and hairs.
So tattoo for me was a big thing, firstly to bear pain and then engraving something on skin which will take a stranger to touch my hand or tattoo area.

But the day I saw videos on youtube of making tattoo & also many of my friends start getting one, I started loving it. Everyone has same skin but we can make a great mark on it which is personalized. The concept is awesome and the eagerness to get a tattoo increased in me.

Currently I have 4 tattoos engraved & more to come.

First 

It is less show cased by me but it is damn close to my heart, It is in Chinese phonotics. The experience was amazing. As I had pre decided the font and everything, I just went to tattoo parlour (Duggs), gave the design and plugged my headphone on with loud music. I was so afraid that I didn't even looked at once toward the artist or tattoo. In about 30 minutes, it was done & trust me guys it was not that painful & totally worth it. I made it on my left hand shoulder.


Second 

So after first tattoo, I decided to engrave a tattoo every year. This tattoo was dedicated to my mom. Me and my friend engraved same tattoo for our respective mothers & our friendship. My mother first words were 'kyu banwaya, dard hua hoga' this is what mom's are like right? Love u mom.

माँ 

Third 

Everyone knows my nick name, though it is given by someone else but all of my friends call me by it. It totally suits my personality too. The meaning is witty. 😉
So this was for my personality & my friends. Got this tattoo in goa.

Nushki

Fourth 

Anyone had watch FRIENDS? The day I saw Rachel's getting heart tattoo, I decided this is the next tattoo I am getting on my back . Heart a pure symbol of love. And what better place than goa to symbolise love.

Heart

Many more tattoos to come in many more years...
😅
Don't be afraid, keep tattooing ❤️

Question to be asked..

Hello everyone,

This time I am here to ask you all a question about something I am feeling since long. 

Everything seems new to me, the feeling, the aura, the perspective of people near me, the life, the excitement, the friendship, the love...

This is first time I am feeling this way, I can surely say you all must have been to a phase in life when you want to be alone. Not out of depression or frustration but to experience the alone you. If not yet, then you are with me, I am feeling this way, to be alone for own good.

I have seen less people living alone & happy. But me, I love it. Just be true to yourself & pamper everything around you.

Life is giving me second chance to live life with full boost of confidence. I may sound confused today, that I am because there is a lot happening in just few days. 

Firstly love gave me second chance, Work life is pushing me toward new milestone, friendship is growing insanely, around with all marriage stuff & married peaple. Not only this, the big thing is if I move forward, I will be reason of many heart breaks. This is what stopping me.

One thing is let life take control and leave it on destiny, other is if someone is hurt I will be guilty life long.

Should I give life a chance? 

Answer in comment section below 👍

We are puppets of life...

Hey everyone, I was busy these days struggling so couldn't intract with you all.

As per title, I am gonna write about what it is to be puppet of life. Life the main thing we are afraid of, the only part of us which is unpredictable. And if we try to control our life, a flying hand come from back and hit at your face with some new consequence.

Being a puppet is no problem but being always a puppet is a problem. So the question arise

How to control life and be a master? 

Just believe in yourself, hard time will come and go, but strength to handle situations is what will remain with you life long.

From my personal experience, just share your life imbalances with someone close to you, may the person himself is in trouble but he will suggest you the best. One more thing don't share this with your parents or relatives, just to your close friend. Family can be selfish & suggest you to do what they want you to do. But friends have nothing to be selfish about.

Why life make you puppet? 

This is question asked by many of my followers, life make us puppet because we gave up. Suppose you are not able to progress in your career, after 2-3 trials you gave up and then life says to do all the rubbish things which is no where connected to your career and we start doing that. Not because its right, but because we act like puppets and follow life, just in hurry to get on top. Believe me pals this way you may get on top but will never be satisfied.
Now lets talk about love, love is best thing happen in your life and worst when you broke up. After break up, what we all do - cry, miss lovers, drugs, alchohol, even suicide. Why do we do it?
Cause life take hold of our emotions and just take us to deep dark inner side of ours. We can only stop this by being strong and confident in our decision. When we were ready to break up because of any reason then why life will tell us to what to do next.

Even I have seen peaple who are with lover, after knowing that they are cheating on them. Because they can't handle the pain of separation. Is this correct?
 No its not, we all become weak when aur loved ones are not with us, but if person is cheating, then how is he/she your loved one. Does ever your mother cheat on you by saying no I can't bear you and find a new mother?
Then why to be in relationship which have all the meaning to you but from your partner end its nothing. Here your partner will use you as a puppet and make your life miserable & too emotional to handle.

So don't give control to life but be controler and fight till your last breath.