Hey everyone, I was busy these days struggling so couldn't intract with you all.
As per title, I am gonna write about what it is to be puppet of life. Life the main thing we are afraid of, the only part of us which is unpredictable. And if we try to control our life, a flying hand come from back and hit at your face with some new consequence.
Being a puppet is no problem but being always a puppet is a problem. So the question arise
How to control life and be a master?
Just believe in yourself, hard time will come and go, but strength to handle situations is what will remain with you life long.
From my personal experience, just share your life imbalances with someone close to you, may the person himself is in trouble but he will suggest you the best. One more thing don't share this with your parents or relatives, just to your close friend. Family can be selfish & suggest you to do what they want you to do. But friends have nothing to be selfish about.
Why life make you puppet?
This is question asked by many of my followers, life make us puppet because we gave up. Suppose you are not able to progress in your career, after 2-3 trials you gave up and then life says to do all the rubbish things which is no where connected to your career and we start doing that. Not because its right, but because we act like puppets and follow life, just in hurry to get on top. Believe me pals this way you may get on top but will never be satisfied.
Now lets talk about love, love is best thing happen in your life and worst when you broke up. After break up, what we all do - cry, miss lovers, drugs, alchohol, even suicide. Why do we do it?
Cause life take hold of our emotions and just take us to deep dark inner side of ours. We can only stop this by being strong and confident in our decision. When we were ready to break up because of any reason then why life will tell us to what to do next.
Even I have seen peaple who are with lover, after knowing that they are cheating on them. Because they can't handle the pain of separation. Is this correct?
No its not, we all become weak when aur loved ones are not with us, but if person is cheating, then how is he/she your loved one. Does ever your mother cheat on you by saying no I can't bear you and find a new mother?
Then why to be in relationship which have all the meaning to you but from your partner end its nothing. Here your partner will use you as a puppet and make your life miserable & too emotional to handle.
As per title, I am gonna write about what it is to be puppet of life. Life the main thing we are afraid of, the only part of us which is unpredictable. And if we try to control our life, a flying hand come from back and hit at your face with some new consequence.
Being a puppet is no problem but being always a puppet is a problem. So the question arise
How to control life and be a master?
Just believe in yourself, hard time will come and go, but strength to handle situations is what will remain with you life long.
From my personal experience, just share your life imbalances with someone close to you, may the person himself is in trouble but he will suggest you the best. One more thing don't share this with your parents or relatives, just to your close friend. Family can be selfish & suggest you to do what they want you to do. But friends have nothing to be selfish about.
Why life make you puppet?
This is question asked by many of my followers, life make us puppet because we gave up. Suppose you are not able to progress in your career, after 2-3 trials you gave up and then life says to do all the rubbish things which is no where connected to your career and we start doing that. Not because its right, but because we act like puppets and follow life, just in hurry to get on top. Believe me pals this way you may get on top but will never be satisfied.
Now lets talk about love, love is best thing happen in your life and worst when you broke up. After break up, what we all do - cry, miss lovers, drugs, alchohol, even suicide. Why do we do it?
Cause life take hold of our emotions and just take us to deep dark inner side of ours. We can only stop this by being strong and confident in our decision. When we were ready to break up because of any reason then why life will tell us to what to do next.
Even I have seen peaple who are with lover, after knowing that they are cheating on them. Because they can't handle the pain of separation. Is this correct?
No its not, we all become weak when aur loved ones are not with us, but if person is cheating, then how is he/she your loved one. Does ever your mother cheat on you by saying no I can't bear you and find a new mother?
Then why to be in relationship which have all the meaning to you but from your partner end its nothing. Here your partner will use you as a puppet and make your life miserable & too emotional to handle.
So don't give control to life but be controler and fight till your last breath.
Deep one
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