1 year completed 😍😍

I m too excited today, one year completed since I have started writting blog 😍

Thanks to everyone, who supported and inspired me, and my most amazing life which told me everytime to shout out loud to the viewers ..

Ummm, life is so unpredictable yaar, I just started this blog to shre my feelings and now I think its my responsibility and talent 😉 to post something good. Currently, life going all smooth and healthy. No grudges no regrets.

Free soul with info of hard reality 

Inspiration are always good and better to lead your life, currently obsessed with mostlysane videos aka prajakta koli. She is youtuber and post fun n inspiring videos. She is doing what she meant to be, not she wanted to be. Some miracles do happen, i wish sometime I also tick that from my checklist. But miracle only happen to good souls, i m good but lil bit witty 😊. Mentioning moslysane link below.

Recently new obsession of lipsticks is there and also being calm and understanding. I guess i m getting mature. Hope to not be one of those mature peaple who are all free from moh maya. I want to be child till my last breath.

What nonsense I am writing, Is it me or some morning boost, don't know 😏?

Chlo cya 🤩🤩

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Indore - Journey will never stop

Travellers shout out for new travel destination..

The more I speak the lesser I feel. For me indore is not just place, its a feeling. Indore is the place which defines me, who i m today.

So Indore started with me and it will end with my soul.
You all must be thinking, Aisa kya hai waha?... Sach bolu toh kuch nhi but mera sab kuch.

So I started this journey on march 2015, with random decision, I packed my bags and landed in new city without any contacts and some money in pocket.
It was first official escape from my home town & I planned to stay in Indore for sometime. Booked my hostel online, marked the to do list, which was nothing but doing course from Arena Animation. Yeah I know its there in delhi too but who would come after me, if i have decided something, Its final. ( I am kinda bossy 😉).

So from airport I went to hostel and found out its very far from institute. I will have to take 3 public transport to reach there. And hostel was pathetic & warden was pain in ass. So I decided to look for place nearer and lenient. By my good luck found this great pg nearer and the aunty was fab too. Next month I shifted there. Time being every Saturday I use to go to new places in Indore all alone. I was liking the me I was becoming. It was great.

In every travel post, I tell you where to go or how to go. But it is more like my life experience. I wanted to share this since very long.

After I got pg, I find out that my friend from fb stays here in Indore. I quickly called her and I felt like little baby who got someone known. All this while, I understood the real meaning of 'ghar ka khana' n ' ghar '. The importance of mom, making new friends, recognizing different person.

There are many things to talk about indore, i m mentioning some topic,
Peeps comment and let me know which one you want me to write on...

Friendship...
First job..
Struggle and pleasure to live alone..
Love ending and new starting..
My second mother...
Chai and sutta days...
Endless travel...
Mindful careers...




Its brief many parts to come 🖐️

Love is psychology between partner ❤️

Firstly Happy new year to everyone, This post is regarding what I found out recently...

Love psychology
Too big term but very easy to understand. As I was heart broken once and also I have issues in relationship, since then I was trying to figure out whats the reason.
The reason is always there in you. You just have to find it.

Bit confusing right, lets start with simple questions What is love?
Some will say its undestanding, some say its trust , some say romamce but all these are just different word and the defination should be created through perspectives not other words.

Let me tell you, love is a feeling when we understand our partner's love language.

So now What is love language?
Its an individual's way to recieve and accept love & also the way he give or nurture the love he/she has.
Love language in simple terms is what you want from your love life and lover. It can be romance, trust, understanding,pampering etc.

Let me clear more with suitable references, mostly girl's love language is they want to be pampered either they are in immense anger or irritated, they will get normal if her lover pampers him.
Same way mostly boy's love language is they are career oriented so they love girl who talk business to them or are intelligent.

I hope you all are clear about the topic. I have been learning this since a year now through google and articles. Some real life stories. So that my relationship can be smooth and happy. Yeah my friends also ask me about relationships advices, that has also helped me a lot to know more.

This is little about my experience and love psychology. If u guys wanna know more, you can contact me. Also for Relationship advices. Or comment below with your story, I will reply soon.

Todalss...

Go with the flow...

Hey everyone!!

Too much going in life these days, meeting new peaple, new enemies, old friends reunion, some new feelings and some awkward relationship, new lies and old truth...

We all face this part of life where we are happy but life is messed up, life is just not going the way we wanted but we are so glad to be where we are. This phase is magical moment, the ambience of this moment is felt like we are in air or may be in heaven for sometime. But lemme tell you all this feeling is only for time being. We all be back to pavalion once the phase is taken over by our mind. The mind which always say about career and the practical crap.

I do believe being practical is the best at this age but overcoming such a blossom moment is not good as well. The main concern here is we are happy. We are being crazy, ignoring something important, doing stupidity. So we ask ourself what should we do?

Stop being happy and find happiness in our practical life .... No the best way to deal with it is, be in the moment and find practicality. Be happy first then practical. Little difficult, I know.
Moment, phrase, destiny all these take us where we are today and just the feeling of overwhelm, make us do what we want to.

Want and sacrifice go hand in hand... We want something but we sacrifice wants to be stable and obviously to be good in society. I will say go with your wants and you will achieve what is good and happy for you. And trust me society doesn't matter.

Feeling out of this world is too rare to feel And to make someone felt that way... 😍

Enjoying each and every part of life is whats important, especially when you don't have any direction to move on.
Life will stop you to be determined to your objective but going with flow will take you to your innermost target. It can be in term of love, friendship, relationship or family. Just smile and go on to be risk taker and flow like water in every moment ....

Not only you but with your presence with this mind set, peaple around you will also experience some happiness and relief. They will trust you and you will be best person to be with as you are joyful on yourself. Peaple will be pleasured with your company and you will be more enthusiastic & fresh. Even your relationships will come on track.

Mostly smile because you are breathing, cheerish every emotion with compulsion smile at the ending. And if at the end there is nothing worth smiling then ' PICTURE ABHI BAKI HAI MERE DOST  '. 

Lesson from past... Mistake in present...

Hey everyone,

This topic is close to my heart though, trying to learn to overcome.

Sometimes we learn our lesson from past experiences either its relationship or may be business but we all learn something, when it breaks and restrict ourself from committing same situation again.
Because of all this we ruin are present, yes we have learned lesson to not to be in same phase again but its not important or mandatory that, that phase will be same as before.

Little confusing right?
The only thing I am trying to say is that past mistake can be great in present or today's time because the peaple are different and you are more stronger than before as you have already been in that moment or part of situation before.

I have done it today, the mistake that is silly and not acceptable, feeling misrable but still I am uncomfortable to express to person and not accepting my fault.

Sometime we feel we are right, not because we are actually right but because we think its right and it will be better to be right. And we ignore the feeling of the person who is connected to that phase. The main part is we just think this way because of our few past experiences with different person.

The situation can change, its just ego or self belief, we behave this way, even because of our shitty past phases, we hurt peaple who actually meant something to us or love them internally.

Commitment is very big word, we deal with it on our daily life but when it comes to the peaple we love, we don't use this word. Not because we are fake but because we think we are not suitable for them. May the feeling are same from both ends but we are confused on commitment. We just don't commit in fear of losing also. Suppose we commit and he/she will leave us.

Lets first know the other end's feeling and then commit but friend till then we will miss the flight, I mean we will miss the time and he / she will go for ever.

I molded a lot of things in this post... Though its dedicated. I wish the person understand and revert may be...


Till next post... Keep rocking 👌

The bond ❤️

Couples are made in heaven though some just believe in miracles ....

Deep thought yet can be felt by everyone who has been in love more than once. 

First love is the gate to heaven but after that the next are gate to good life that too with precaution 'not to be involve so much'. 😋

You all must be thinking, why sudden blog which makes no sence but still relatable. I will tell you why? 

Recently, I have been listening a lot of first love kinda stories and I even remembered my time. So here I thought, lets research about first love mystery.

Interacted lot of my friends regarding the mystery and majority were like, first love is true and others are time pass. And remaining one's said all numbers are same. 

My theory is little different , either its first, second, third or may be tenth. Love is not which number it is or how many people you have slept with or may be cheating on your current one. But love is that feeling where you can tell that one person your in & out. I mean you can tell your lover this is my number or may be if you have cheated then be open about it. This sounds perfect bond to me. The bond where you are best friends first than the soulmate. 

Couples in today's time I see, living together since long, still they doesn't have a single clue what as a person there partner are. This is not love, this is either stubborness to be together or just society pressure or sometimes even the Fear of being alone (FOBA) . Many people, I know are in FOBA category so much that they ruin there life. This category is mostly after first break up, the fear of commitment change to FOBA. 

I know what you will ask next, How to find that one person? 

Simple just leave everything to your destiny. Just go with the flow. Don't think too much. Love is stupid doesn't require brains. We all have that power to catch that one and make them ours. 🙂

Kahin na kahin, koi na koi mere liye banaya gaya hai ... aur kabhi na kabhi main usse zaroor milongi

But

Kisi ko pyar karna aur ussi se pyar paana ... bahut kam logon ko naseeb hota hai

Go someone somewhere must be waiting for you 💕

Forget or Forgive

And this time arrives again, probably best time as I am connecting to each one of you. Some might know me & some not but everyone can feel my words.

Words, saying, speech, these all are such incredible way to express whatever we feel.
There are many ups and downs in our lives but the hurt is constant, hurt can be from family, friends, colleagues, boss or an unknown. Hurt is a feeling of immense hate or unconditional love. But the pain remains the same. Why?

If feeling are different than pain should be distinct too. Here come the role of our brain. When somebody hurt us we say 'I will forgive not forget' we say this not because we meant but since we want the person to feel guilty. Aren't we?

Yes we do, after saying such strong phase we take a burden on us and life long we find one similar expression to hurt that person. Is this fair?

No it is not, the best punishment to the person would be to suffer, let them go forgive and forget them & then see the play of karma.
Karma is what we all are bound with, how much we believe or not, its there and will always be there. Not to tell us how bad we did in past but to teach us & make our future bright.

Forgetting is easy than forgiving. Many peaple I know they tend to forgive easily though but forgetting sounds world war 3 to them. Why?

The answer is too simple, because if we will not forgive that thought will be in your nerves for life long as a birthmark but forget is like casual nature, you will be effected only for time being.

Lets cut this through, next time whenever you are hurt , try to forgive and forget them. Trust me your life will be more simpler and the person will feel shallow from that very moment.

"Kabhi kabhi hum mushkil rasta sirf is liye chunte hai ... kyun ki humein lagta hai, important cheezein paane ke liye humein mushkil rasta apnana chahiye ... apne aap ko punish karna bahut zaroori samajhte hai ... but why, aasaan rasta kyun nahi chun sakte ... kya burai hai us mein ... khaas karke jab us mushkil ka saamna karne ke liye hum taiyaar hi nahi hai"

Inspired dialogue of Shah Rukh Khan
From Dear Zindagi



Cherishing smiles ☺️