And this time arrives again, probably best time as I am connecting to each one of you. Some might know me & some not but everyone can feel my words.
Words, saying, speech, these all are such incredible way to express whatever we feel.
There are many ups and downs in our lives but the hurt is constant, hurt can be from family, friends, colleagues, boss or an unknown. Hurt is a feeling of immense hate or unconditional love. But the pain remains the same. Why?
If feeling are different than pain should be distinct too. Here come the role of our brain. When somebody hurt us we say 'I will forgive not forget' we say this not because we meant but since we want the person to feel guilty. Aren't we?
Yes we do, after saying such strong phase we take a burden on us and life long we find one similar expression to hurt that person. Is this fair?
No it is not, the best punishment to the person would be to suffer, let them go forgive and forget them & then see the play of karma.
Karma is what we all are bound with, how much we believe or not, its there and will always be there. Not to tell us how bad we did in past but to teach us & make our future bright.
Forgetting is easy than forgiving. Many peaple I know they tend to forgive easily though but forgetting sounds world war 3 to them. Why?
The answer is too simple, because if we will not forgive that thought will be in your nerves for life long as a birthmark but forget is like casual nature, you will be effected only for time being.
Lets cut this through, next time whenever you are hurt , try to forgive and forget them. Trust me your life will be more simpler and the person will feel shallow from that very moment.
From Dear Zindagi
Cherishing smiles ☺️
Words, saying, speech, these all are such incredible way to express whatever we feel.
There are many ups and downs in our lives but the hurt is constant, hurt can be from family, friends, colleagues, boss or an unknown. Hurt is a feeling of immense hate or unconditional love. But the pain remains the same. Why?
If feeling are different than pain should be distinct too. Here come the role of our brain. When somebody hurt us we say 'I will forgive not forget' we say this not because we meant but since we want the person to feel guilty. Aren't we?
Yes we do, after saying such strong phase we take a burden on us and life long we find one similar expression to hurt that person. Is this fair?
No it is not, the best punishment to the person would be to suffer, let them go forgive and forget them & then see the play of karma.
Karma is what we all are bound with, how much we believe or not, its there and will always be there. Not to tell us how bad we did in past but to teach us & make our future bright.
Forgetting is easy than forgiving. Many peaple I know they tend to forgive easily though but forgetting sounds world war 3 to them. Why?
The answer is too simple, because if we will not forgive that thought will be in your nerves for life long as a birthmark but forget is like casual nature, you will be effected only for time being.
Lets cut this through, next time whenever you are hurt , try to forgive and forget them. Trust me your life will be more simpler and the person will feel shallow from that very moment.
"Kabhi kabhi hum mushkil rasta sirf is liye chunte hai ... kyun ki humein lagta hai, important cheezein paane ke liye humein mushkil rasta apnana chahiye ... apne aap ko punish karna bahut zaroori samajhte hai ... but why, aasaan rasta kyun nahi chun sakte ... kya burai hai us mein ... khaas karke jab us mushkil ka saamna karne ke liye hum taiyaar hi nahi hai"
Inspired dialogue of Shah Rukh KhanFrom Dear Zindagi
Cherishing smiles ☺️
