What is Love?

Hey people, writing after ages as got motivation just now.

Never gave you guys a formal introduction. So here it is

I am Anushka, I am a friend cum consultant for everyone, always being a helping hand for many people, not to brag but I think this best describes me.

So let us start with the one thing most people have experienced and it is LOVE, but what it is? Do we have a proper explanation for it or its just another way to calm your physical or mental need? Or it is some meaning to our life. Or changes our life.

Many of you must be thinking some other things too, but with my experience, I have seen love depends on person to person just one thing remains the same. That is feeling.

The feeling to be with that person all time, the feeling to touch him/her, the feeling where everything stops when we are with them, the feeling where time flies, the feeling to imagine fantasies with that person. Some people get confused between attraction and love.

The feeling of happiness 

You are happy when he/she is happy, just watching that smile make your day awesome.

A sense to care and to give attention

You desire to make him/her comfortable first and then think about yourself. Like while meeting, you prefer to order his.her favorite food.

Making sacrifices

You see your comfort zone after him/her.

Bringing up good in you

Loving someone positively means you feel good things in yourself too. It is shown by better words and deeds you express, as well as more self-confidence.

The attraction is when you are with that person because of need something, Love is when you are just there with nothing in return.

Love is when you never feel bored of talking, no pressure and also you do everything to just be there. You just don’t care about your dignity or self-respect.

Here many will ask what if he/she doesn’t love you back the same way. I will say to them just leave them and you be who you are, don’t let go of the opportunity you are getting.

Love is important but a career, living life your too. So just let the person be, never force him/her. Stay focus in your life and if that love was meant to happen, it will. Yes, not every love story ends in marriage, some are made by heart and stays there. Religion, caste, family, society all these will be there but for love, you don’t need permission.

Now you may ask me If he/she never comes back. So here is a tip for that, don't wait for them. Time will fly like anything and if they never came back. Trust me he/she doesn't love you the same way you did. But does his/her love matter now. You are already doing well for yourself and it has been such a long time to expect his/her return. 

Now explore the new things to do, Love is the best feeling in the world but, not only feeling. Try self-care or your hobbies or set your goals. 

And nothing seems right, just drop me a text will glad to help you in your future endeavors.😊💓